I See You Breaking
Another Heart.
.
Mind games.
Insecure people
in love games.
Why bother if you don’t care.
Makes you feel macho,
to make someone else
feel small…
that’s what I think.
I see you breaking
another heart.
.
Why bother to tell
someone you’d love them
more,
if they’d only “change” and
be someone else…
…its not you, you say…
if only they’d be different.
They you wouldn’t stray.
Like I believe that one,
but you’re not talking to me
and those in love want to
please and try to become
someone they aren’t.
Then you tell them,
you aren’t the person
I “fell in love with”.
.
Hogwash.
.
It hurts so see someone
at the mercy of a parasite…
life sucking parasite.
You make someone sad,
and thinking “if only I could…”
leave them crying,
go your merry way,
and never looking back.
They suffer while you’re
off having fun
and then you return,
like they should be happy
you’re back to “help” them
be better so you’ll
stay this time.
.
Mind games.
Insecure people games,
preying on the vulnerable.
Think you’re so macho.
Just a parasite...
That’s the way I see it ,
Good thing it’s not me,
or you’d be dust.
That isn’t a fee hotel for
macho lovers.
I see you breaking
another heart.
.
Mind games.
I see through your mind games.
Piddly little mind games…
bully games is what I call them.
Too bad the “victims” …
for that’s what they are,
can’t see through your
using lovers like pawns
in a chess game.
.
Mind games.
Been there.
Sucked in to them.
Wish I’d had the 20/20 mirror
when I was younger mirror.
Bully. That’s what you are.
A BULLY.
.
The mold wasn’t broken
and history repeats itself
with another generation
of lovers who buy into
Mind games,
convincing others they are
“in love” games.
I SEE YOU breaking
another heart.
.
.
Using a prompt from Inspiration Monday.
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Robin Hawke
Powerful words–the choices and the sense, Robin
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siggiofmaine
Thanks…I’m slow … to figure this is a reminder.. Duh. How do you ever put up with me !
Peace and love,
Siggi in Downeast Maine
bekindrewrite
I used to know someone like that – “friend” of a friend. It’s so frustrating when you can see how much of a jerk this guy is, and your friend can’t…or won’t. Not anymore, fortunately!
Heaven
mind games by bullies are frustrating indeed….never fell for it thankfully but i do pity the girls whose heart are broken…
siggiofmaine
Heaven,
Unfortunately I recognize it from sucking into it…my mother told me, and I bought hook line and sinker that if there is a problem with a relationship, it is the woman’s fault and she can do what ever it takes to fix it…worth at least a few more volumes of posts !
The person, most recently that I know for this, is still in the throes of lust and can’t totally see it…
I refuse to suck in and be part of a triangle…
have offered my opinion, and let it stand. Amazing that super intelligent as in university studies, and noticing it in their friends, can’t see it in their own life. I do despise a person who will refuse to work for various reasons and expect the other person to carry the load where two incomes is necessary.
Thanks for your reply…
Peace,
Siggi in Downeast Maine
siggiofmaine
PS to Brian and Heaven…
it’s not just the girls that do this…I tried to make what I wrote unisex…
it’s an equal opportunity dysfunctional relationship maker.
Peace,
Siggi
brian miller
seethis kinda stuff just aggravates me…if i have to change do you really love me or do you love the potential in me to fulfill your own dreams for me…and is that really love?
siggiofmaine
Brian,
I totally agree with you…that wasn’t how I was brought up, however. It has been an interesting transition for me…I’m coming up on my 20th anniversary of rehab therapy for PTSD from living that way. I totally agree with you…unfortunately I was old before it sunk in !
I wrote more below in answer to Heaven’s comment.
Peace,
Siggi in Downeast Maine